The art of dating. There is an art. There is a strategy and if you do not have one you should. Dating Rules created by a woman for women. The reason is simple I had a slut for a roommate and everything I know not to do was because I watched her. I know it isn’t nice to call names but I am someone who calls a spade a spade and this girl showed her cards more than a poker player on a Saturday night. I had a completely different dating strategy. I took a peek on facebook and noted that mine worked and well she is most likely the Last Call Girl.
There seems to be a virus going around….spreading like wildfire and taking no prisoners. It’s as if the single women of my generation all underwent a brainwashing simultaneously. Was it zombies? Werewolves? A sign of the apocalypse? I’m not sure but I don’t like it. I don’t like it at all.
I call it the “happily single” disease. It goes like this: Ask a woman in her 30’s if she’s married and if she’s not married/engaged/living with someone/in a serious relationship, she’ll say, “No, I’m happily single.” Wait a second. Did the question ask anything about her feelings? Nope. She’s just offering it. What is she trying to tell you?
Is she saying that she’s happiER being single than she would be not single? Doubtful. Maybe in a few cases, but not in every case. That simply wouldn’t make any sense. If that were true, all new relationships would cease to start and we’d have no more marriages. That isn’t happening anytime soon.More
It is late and the bars are emptying and there she sits. She is the Last Call Girl. She checks her cell phone. Then she places it in her bag. She scans the room for a guy. Then she nervously reaches into her bag wondering if he has called. She waits for the guy who stood her up a week ago to call her. It is after midnight and the day has past. She is awaiting his call. She can help but think of him. They met once but it must have meant something to him. I mean it had to have. Why hasn’t he texted her? She is thelast call girl.
The Last Call Girl
Okay, so I believe there are three types of girls when it comes to dating. There is the lunch date. That is the girl a guy takes out to lunch. He isn’t sure if she is “just a friend” or something more. He takes her to lunch to feel out her feeling for him. He is interested but maybe not really interested.
Then there is the dinner date girl. She has been invited out to a date at night with the hopes that there is some spark there. He has committed to sitting across from her for at least a meal. He feels confident that she will at the very least amuse him through the meal. If not then she must be good enough to look out for an hour or more. He has the option of taking her out somewhere else or taking her home. The dinner date girl is usually someone that he is attracted to.
The last girl is what I call the last call girl. The bar is closing or the night is ending and he hasn’t met anyone else. He decides to text someone or call someone at a ridiculous hour. It is not his intent to make you the dinner date girl. If it was he would have invited you to dinner. It is his intent to avoid being alone by calling the last call girl. You will never be the dinner date girl if you accept being the last call girl.
These are my instructions to all you ladies who have become or are thinking of becoming the last call girl. Give your phone to a friend and ask them to hold it. Do not make plans with someone after they have gone out. If they want to see you then they can take you out. Do not text or answers texts at ridiculous hours. You are busy. I do not care if your are busy smelling perfume in a magazine you are so busy that you can’t text, call, or visit someone who thinks you are the last call girl!
I will say this many times on this site. You teach people how to treat you by accepting unacceptable behavior. You are worth being more than “the last call girl”. The last call girl is the person that he calls when all else has failed. When the bar is closing and he hasn’t found anyone else. He isn’t calling you because your who he wants he is calling you because you are who is left.
Message for the day: If you pick up that phone he will never respect your time. You are more important and more valuable than being the “LAST Call Girl!”
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